I'm sharing this with everyone. I received this letter from somebody's father and I wish to translate it to English from Malay. The advices given was really good and I hope as much as it good for me, it will be good for everyone else too. For some thoughts and food for soul. It might be short but hopefully by reading it, every girls I know will get something beneficial.-[ i got from my beloved friend at curtin univ...love to share with u guys~
Dear sis,
Allah has created women's fitrah in a very beautiful form and soft. Allah created a women with a heart that can easily forgive and aqal that needs dependency. A women's value is not just on how great she thinks, good deeds she did, the beautiful features she has but also the heart which is clean.
A clean heart is the heart which is free from thinking about peoples' mistakes and that is the closest heart to Allah. Allah takes a good care of people who always think about Him.
Dear sis,
To forgive someone mistakes will make people forgive your mistakes. Take this as a principe to hold on and to face your own heart. The life that you go through might have caused you to be hard and firm. But look at Rasulullah. Even he is firm with his decision, he will always able to forgive people. Always take Rasulullah as your guide and the best example. Forgive anyone, eventhough that person has been cruel and zalim to you.
Allah always replace all the sadness with berkat, therefore, there is no reason to go against the fitrah He has created. The fitrah that women is created with a heart that is able to forgive. Where is your iman when you wanted to go against this fitrah? Would you want to live with iman like a sinking ship in the ocean?
If you don't learn to forgive the people who has been zalim to you, how would you face this world? Your road is still long and your life still have its balance. Don't make the balance saddening thinking of the people who is zalim.
Allah is The Most Beautiful and He created women as earth jewel. Make yourself earth most precious jewel. Not all women has strong heart but make yourself as the chosen one. Live your life with a free heart, not thinking of the people who has been zalim to you and mistakes they made.
Take care. With regards.
Allah has created women's fitrah in a very beautiful form and soft. Allah created a women with a heart that can easily forgive and aqal that needs dependency. A women's value is not just on how great she thinks, good deeds she did, the beautiful features she has but also the heart which is clean.
A clean heart is the heart which is free from thinking about peoples' mistakes and that is the closest heart to Allah. Allah takes a good care of people who always think about Him.
Dear sis,
To forgive someone mistakes will make people forgive your mistakes. Take this as a principe to hold on and to face your own heart. The life that you go through might have caused you to be hard and firm. But look at Rasulullah. Even he is firm with his decision, he will always able to forgive people. Always take Rasulullah as your guide and the best example. Forgive anyone, eventhough that person has been cruel and zalim to you.
Allah always replace all the sadness with berkat, therefore, there is no reason to go against the fitrah He has created. The fitrah that women is created with a heart that is able to forgive. Where is your iman when you wanted to go against this fitrah? Would you want to live with iman like a sinking ship in the ocean?
If you don't learn to forgive the people who has been zalim to you, how would you face this world? Your road is still long and your life still have its balance. Don't make the balance saddening thinking of the people who is zalim.
Allah is The Most Beautiful and He created women as earth jewel. Make yourself earth most precious jewel. Not all women has strong heart but make yourself as the chosen one. Live your life with a free heart, not thinking of the people who has been zalim to you and mistakes they made.
Take care. With regards.
"A clean heart is the heart which is free from thinking about peoples' mistakes and that is the closest heart to Allah. Allah takes a good care of people who always think about Him."
ReplyDeletenice quote! =)
i like~
ReplyDelete"but whoever be patient and forgiving, sure that was the noble action" (42:43)
ReplyDeletepeople are easy to give forgivenees but HARD to forgive...that was the threat that must be fixes in our daily life
people are easy to give forgiveness but HARD to forget =)... betul 2 ateh
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